Last night my boyfriend and I were fighting because he says I'm frigid. He told me there's a coldness about me. I don't see it and have never been told this before.

He said that when we go out or to the store, I'm not as friendly as him. He'll ask people how they're doing and try to start up conversations. Most of the time, I don't have time to do this or I have other stuff on my mind. I don't think not striking up a conversation in a 5 second transaction makes me frigid.

I just don't get it. This is huge - we almost broke up. I'm not sure if he's right or just being manipulative to be controlling.

Any advice?
peppermintwind peppermintwind
31-35, F
Aug 7, 2010