I love my soulmate and lover very much. We are very close to making a life together after living 6000 miles apart. We love sex and swinging but as we are apart play alone including her having a long term sexual relationship with a married man. We had always discussed that when we were together properly we would only play together. Yesterday she said she didn't like that agreement and still wants to play alone including her MM relationship. I feel deeply hurt and confused. It seems to strike at the heart of our relationship. I don't know what to do.
IanMcL IanMcL
56-60, M
1 Response Aug 23, 2014

She is saying she will play around with you but that's it. Either except her terms or move on

I would move on