Aquarius Men Are the Most Challenging!

They are the most difficult men to catch! The light up like fire crakers at the beginning- so charming, very sexy...than they just want to be friends? 

I did not got after him- he came after me.

What to do? Any other girls out there experience the same thing? First it seems like the love or your life than they turn..!


Isadora90 Isadora90
7 Responses Apr 3, 2008

Do Aquarius men ever wonder if you cld be doing the same thing to them the lying & and talking to others behind their back. And why do they lie and do these things behind your back.. But tell you that they love you and you are the one. I don't even know what to believe anymore ..

My Aquarian man acts the total opposite of what his sign says. why and is there an exception?
He says he is in love with me but dosen't ignnore me. He is possessive and wantsme to submit to him. He tries to get me to say I belong to him, but I tell him I don't because he has a woman and I don't want to do that to her. I am 34 gemini and he is 46 aquarian. When we talk about this and it he dosen't get the answer he wants from me, he says he has to get off of the phone because it's not going his way. We met a loooong time ago. Lost contact for 12 years and he found ME and started his pursuit every since then. He tell me that that nite we first spent together stayed in him mind for years and he realized that I should of been with him and so forth and so on. I am in love with him and have crossed that line with him, but won't give in to being just a piece of === even though, since i am not ready for a relationship if he was single I would give him a chance. He is very honoest to me at least, I have met some of his friends, I felt like I was a princess when he introduced me, he called me his black queen. I don't understand why when he has a girlfriend or whoever she is if she even exists, he wants me. I tell him that we cant be together because i can't fully give my heart to someone that belongs to someone else. He gets mad and doesn't want me to bring it up, but it bothers me. He sent me a text last night saying "U belong to me. U were born to serve as my queen, remember I found you shinnin bright like a diamond. He often expresses his deepest empathy and sympathy for my abusive relationships because he did not make his move then when we first met, he feels guilty. He is always straight forward with me as well as I to him. We talk about everything. He gave me the password to his laptop. No one but his kids from a previous relationship/marriage has this. He told me he likes my body but loves me. He said that he can't marry me and went into this thing about how the government uses marriages like contracts to make money, he hates this. Is this just a story to get out of committing to me the way I want? I know that his feelings are true for me through his actions and words. He can be intense, but I stand my ground he gives up calls me back and its like nothing happened. So confusing, so depending on what it was we were talking about, I will bring it back up or we move on which usually comes back up and we actually talk, hit a brick wall, he shuts down and then calls again. I am thinking that he won't stop until he hears me say I belong to him. I have tried to ignore him and everything, but this only further intriques him. I am kind and when I speak to him i speak with respect so even if we do disagree, i think it turns him on that i stand my ground. I even told him that if a guy comes along that is willing to settle down live right like I see for My life, I will not be talking to him. I think it crushed him, but he still wont leave me alone. I have read almost everything about his sign and he is the total opposite in most cases. I am confused and don't want to waste time waiting for him to be with only me. I tell him we are friends and he says i am his woman. wth? I need some insight, please be kind. Thank you/

That's their thing. They lay it on very thick, very persistent and aggressive in the beginning. They enjoy challenges. They want you to go every where with them usually with his friends etc and usually doing something in his daily routine that he enjoys doing. And wants your undivided attention when you're there with him. The more you pull away from it the harder they try...and then either 2 things happen. He finally gets tired of trying to mold you into this perfect person he thought you were when he fell "love at first sight". And began to seek ms. Perfect out again, or will settle for a easy access situation until he runs into another "ms perfect" OR You will finally start losing yourself because you allowed him to manipulate u into every demand he through out and now he is bored.

and how do we win you over?? If everything was perfect then he jumped off the face of the earth... does that mean its over?? please help do i contact or do i just let him go and come to me?! ugh!

**** him... they are not worth it... he ill jus drain u if u get caught... find ur smart stratergy n get out... inevitabbly oneday he il make u hate him,,, save urself b4 that... pls

true....absolutely crazy when they are banging

they are mainly group people and friendship is their forte. they struggle with relationships as it requires something deeper emotionally from them that they aren't ready/able to give. they act differently when they are into you as they are nice to everyone. you will notice they are slightly stand offish at times, while all over you on other occassions. they are extremely flirtatious....especially in the beginning and especially when they aren't 'that into you.' it is safer that way.

I think you're right, Gemini5. I wished it weren't true but, alas, you're on the money.

Just love their minds and then their soul and then their body in that order.... they'll love you back

Or you can try soul first and then the mind and body WILL follow ... We are challenging people, we are often extremely empathic and so have to shield ourselves, and we are often too smart for our own good. But win us over, and let us surrender to you and we're more loyal than your dog! And fiercer, too.
And we can be very open-minded ... hint, hint, nudge, nudge, knowhatimean, saynomore. ;-)

Jerielle! Love your note!! Definitely know what you mean ;) I'm usually engaged via mind, then all else follows....I'm intrigued with your approach via the soul first, of course, different people prefer differing interactions.

And yet here I have to admit, we Aquarius, male and female, are very guarded about revealing our souls.