I Am Gemini

Where do I start, I have been dating, if you can call it that my man for over 6 months, I have seen him a total of 3 times!
We live a couple of hours away from each other, he told me he loved me the first week after our first date and wanted to marry me.

He was very charming, I did not fancy him looks-wise, but we had a connection and when he kissed me that was it I was under his spell.

He had a friend that was going to get a car repaired for me that I had a minor bump with so I did not have to go through my insurance, seven weeks and it still had not been fixed, he let me down and I had to go through my insurance ( my hero not )

He let me down over and over again, every time we were supposed to see each other, he could not get through on my phone, he ended up in hospital, his house had been burglarized after our first date and he had to go home, another date he lost his keys on the way back from visiting a friend who needed money urgently while I was waiting till 2.30am with a Chinese meal that he was supposed to pay for on his return, his keys were handed in the next day apparently but it took him all day to collect them needless to say I told him to go to hell, another date ruined, all bullshit I am sure, but I gave him the benefit of the doubt as he loved me right?!

He always had an excuse for being evasive, unavailable and flaky, we would argue, When I would challenge him he would put the phone down, gulity conscience.

 I would tell him to to go to hell, then we would begin texting each other again, he would be back saying he was a bonehead, he loved me, missed me could not live without me, wanted me and nobody else.

Everytime he treats me like crap, I give as good as I get, but I am a very forgiving person and always forgive him, love can make you do stupid things sometimes.  :-(

I have arranged to go on another date with another man so wish me luck.
theenglishrose theenglishrose
41-45, F
2 Responses May 7, 2012

I'm sorry you are having a hard time with this guy. but no 2 are alike I have a couple that are my friends. and one that I'm currently supposedly seeing as in my boy friend. But even though I asked him: So are we bf and gf? He goes: yeah I thought we established that. Well Mr. Boy friend. How does a bf not contact his gf for almost a week? I should have expected this since this is our 2nd time giving our relationship a try. I mean phones work both ways don't they? And after our first try I did so much reading on aqua Men. Some said: once you live your life and forget about them, then that's when they start coming around. It's almost like a game of cat and mouse. Some will pull away when they realize they are falling for you and others will spill their guts(this is true) I'm sorry but I'm not a teenager. Neither is he. If what you wanted was friendship you should have just said so! I am Gemini too by the way.

Good Luck withdate, and I hope you have fun!

I am not co-dependent far from it I am very independent person, I work I look after myself, I have friends and a loving family.<br />
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I just choose to believe that what people are telling me is the truth until I find out it is a lie.<br />
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I am not looking for someone to complete me what drivel I do not need completing thanks very much, I am however looking for someone to share my life with.<br />
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If I was desperate I would be dating all the men who ask me out and there are a lot, I have decided to give another a man a chance that I have been friends with for a while, why the hell not? I like male company why should I deny myself that because of one creep?<br />
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I never said I believed he wanted to marry me, I said he said he wanted to, I am telling a story, thanks for your totally inept psychoanalysis, you are entitled to your opinion, however you do not know me so do not judge me.<br />
Peace be with you too.<br />
P.S.<br />
This group is supposed to be about Aquarius men! why are you discussing me, it is supposed to be a discussion about them?!