My Boyfriend Prefer to Watch **** Than Having Sex...

When my boyfriend and I move in together, sex is like once in a blue moon. it's not the same anymore. If I won't initiate it he won't ask for it. Until one day I found out that he likes watching **** a lot. I am so frustrated.... I don't know what's wrong because he prefer to watch **** than having sex with me. I know he's not cheating on me but he's hurting me so bad everytime i will check the websites he visited. I even asked him if he's not sexually attracted to me, but he told me that **** is a "guy thing." I still don't get it... i want a physical attachment with him but it seems he doesn't like, if he's not tired, he's busy.... a lot of lame excuses. i really don't know what to do..... 

sabina77 sabina77
31-35
2 Responses Mar 28, 2009

I can understand his interest in looking at online ****; however, I am baffled by his not wanting to have sex with you!

Make a suggestion to him...ask him how he would feel if he watched you having sex with another guy instead of him watching ****...<br />
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I know I would be delighted if my wife was to do that again...I was disappointed when she stopped a few years ago...