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Questions To Gay People

Hi guys, i'm doing research on homosexuality, can you please help me with these questions. most of them might seem rude and disrespectful, but its been created by the research group, please be as honest as you can possibly be. Thank you. Please, if you feel you don't want to share your thoughts publicly, then email me. this is my email,. hernandoramirez85@att.net
I appreciate your help.

When did you come out?
How did your surroundings react?
Do you have a partner?
Do you aim to be openly gay in a public (hold hands and kiss?)
If yes, have you yourself done it?
Have you ever had any concerns or situations where you felt guilty? (From a religion point of view)
If yes, how did you overcome it?

Lifestyle!!
Do you go to gay bars or clubs on regular basis?
How do you greet other gay people? (Lips kissing or just with a handshake)
What do you think of one night stand?
Do you sleep with others while you are in a relationship?
Do you think you would use the chance to sleep with other gay guys/girls if he sends certain signals (while you are in relationship)
Do you fall in love constantly?
How would you describe this particular style of lips kissing with random guys/girls when you greet them?
Which is the most significant for your feelings or sex?
How do you feel sharing your sexuality and sex life with others (including straight friends?)
Do you go deep into details?
Let’s say you are facing a separation or a recent breakup with your boyfriend/girlfriend, will you allow yourself sleeping with others without resolving you personal issues?
Will you tell your partner if you cheated on him/her?
How long each relationship lasts?
What do you think of straight guys/girls? Have you ever aimed for a sexual contact with them?
If yes, have you had one? How did it turn out?
Hernandoramirez85 Hernandoramirez85 22-25 3 Responses Jan 24, 2013

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Well, after collecting certain data about this survey, i arrived to a conclusion that only 2% of gay M/W would not come out sometime soon, and by having gay friends i would definitely tell that you people are the most honest and nicest i have ever questioned(based on your responses) let me tell you the opposite side of the story. My friends who are gay would absolutely answer to all of these questions differently. They do cheat while they are in a relationship, they do kiss random dudes or gals, they sleep around without healing from a recent brake up, and they positively don't regret what they actually do. They have a bad name, but they don't care, and they are not ashamed of saying things or doing things around other people, believe me that forces me to stop the friendship immediately. I was lucky that i was assigned to run this survey so i could see if others behave this particular way.
Thank you sooo much for your help.

When did you come out? In and out of the closit with myself all my life, untill I told my wife. To my wife 8 years ago one of my brothers 6 months
How did your surroundings react? both reacted well
Do you have a partner? Married to a woman other than that no
Do you aim to be openly gay in a public (hold hands and kiss?) not particularly
If yes, have you yourself done it?
Have you ever had any concerns or situations where you felt guilty? (From a religion point of view) No
If yes, how did you overcome it?

Lifestyle!!
Do you go to gay bars or clubs on regular basis? occasionally 3 to 4 times per year
How do you greet other gay people? (Lips kissing or just with a handshake) little hug
What do you think of one night stand? prefer relationships, but I would not object
Do you sleep with others while you are in a relationship? no
Do you think you would use the chance to sleep with other gay guys/girls if he sends certain signals (while you are in relationship) no
Do you fall in love constantly? did when I was younger.
How would you describe this particular style of lips kissing with random guys/girls when you greet them? question unclear!
Which is the most significant for your feelings or sex? feelings
How do you feel sharing your sexuality and sex life with others (including straight friends?)
Do you go deep into details? My sex life is private.
Let’s say you are facing a separation or a recent breakup with your boyfriend/girlfriend, will you allow yourself sleeping with others without resolving you personal issues? unsure probably not.
Will you tell your partner if you cheated on him/her? In my situation (married &gay) no
How long each relationship lasts? marriage 27 years. Gay relationship 6 months.
What do you think of straight guys/girls? Have you ever aimed for a sexual contact with them? attractive but no point in trying it on
If yes, have you had one? How did it turn out?

I am came out at seventeen.
My friends and brother accepted me wholeheartedly, my parents want to keep it my family's dirty little secret.
No.
Yes, I've held hands.
No, not really.

No.
Just a handshake or a hug at most.
I think there great, as long as both sides understand that that is all it is ever going to be.
No, not without clearing it with my significant other
Not if I hadn't cleared it with my significant other
No.
Just a quick peck
Feelings
I think it's fine, I feel nervous at first, not knowing how they'll react, but I get over it.
Yes.
Maybe.
Yes, I think I would
I've only had one when I was fifteen, that was for six months, but that's a long time when your fifteen.
Straight people are fine, we're all the same, really. No, I haven't.