I've come to find that the "closet" is a really accurate metaphor because it feels like you're trapped by yourself in the dark and running out of air. The longer you stay, the harder it gets.
xyndjx xyndjx
22-25, M
4 Responses Aug 22, 2014

This is exactly what's happening to me

So true :(

I understand where you are. You get in a vicious circle - the more you wait, the more behind the curve you feel, so it's ever more difficult to let yourself go. I spent my college years in the same increasing spiral of frustration. Sorry you're in the same spot - I remember it well.

Thanks :) how did you end up getting out of it?

Well, u dont have to be in the closet

I guess nobody HAS to, right? But coming out is just as terrifying