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Nothing Wrong With It

I'm homosexual.  I've been in a relationship with the same man for 11 years.  I don't see being gay as anything's just the way I was born. 

Although I have some family members who can't deal with me being gay, that's their problem.  Me being gay is just way it my blue eyes or being right handed. 

I do dislike how religion causes so many people to be prejudiced and hateful but there's nothing really that I can do about it.  I just live my life with honor and hope that people see that being gay is no big deal.  It's part of who I am but not all I am about.

life101 life101 41-45, M 33 Responses Nov 3, 2007

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Mate, you are choosing if you will be right handed or not in your childhood. Your body is your body, but you are the soul in a body and you can choose. this is why being gay is wrong because it's a wrong decision because it is against nature (you don't respect your body) and against God's laws.<br />
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God bless you.<br />
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Bad things happen but everything has it's purpose. You just need to find it.<br />
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God bless you again!

Dude what’s wrong with you? If it’s against nature then how come there are people who are gay? if we choose to damn ourselves then who are you to argue with our wishes? If I am so wrong then I hope god strikes me down right now and kills me where I sit... odd I guess I’m ok then. When will you Christian types learn that you can’t convert a gay person? I hope you live a happy life and all but don’t ruin the beauty of this site by telling us we are wrong

With all due respect, all individuals are responsible for their souls. The body is a temple, but individuals will be based on their souls. Everyone seeks to be happy and people should not be frowned upon because of their sexual orientation, gender, sexual preference. God wants everone to be happy and content not judgemental. That is for the Almighty to decide.

Before I comment here.... I would like to state that you have a great screen name! LIFE101 it is so scolar and clever with deep meaning as I get it (I dont know if that was your goal) but it is very successful!<br />
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Ok. I agree religion is a drawback in our society as well. But I think things are changing now for the better. Priests that were exposed and etc have made people think that really homosexuality is state of life and not a desease. I also believe that in the near future ( i dont know what gives me this impression) but yes, I beleive that churches will meet (christian churches) and discuss in depth this matter and will change some grounds of thinking. I sound rediculous, but I hope for this to happen.<br />
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Yes, our sexuality does not define the whole of our being but a part of us. I totally agree!<br />
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See you soon. I like these discussions!

I totally agree with you. I too think that's there's nothing wrong about being gay---that's just the way I turned out and since there's nothing I can do about it, I just try and live my life with honor and hope--the same as you do.