I'm In Love With The Guy That Loves My Straight Best Friend

For three years, I have been in love with one of my friends and recently,I found out that he loves one of my straight best friends and it really hurts me. My straight best friend really enjoys being friends with the guy I love but isn't willing to "go gay". I'm glad that they can be friends but I am in a lot of pain knowing that the guy I love will never love me. The guy I love doesn't even
know that I love him or that I know that he loves my straight best friend. I really don't know what to do and am really confused and hurting.
halfface halfface
18-21, M
2 Responses Mar 16, 2010

i know how you feel i am in love with a guy like that and it pains me to know he will never love me.

Wow, That has to be tough.. It's hard enough to love someone and not have it returned, worse to love someone that loves your best friend.. Worst yet to have that friend be someone that will never love them back.. I would be thinking "Ok so you would love someone that you have no chance with, rather than love me?" It's tough but in all reality we know you have no control over who you love and neither does he.. That's the worst part of love. Eventually it will all fall into place, but I know that doesn't make anything any easier for now.. I'm sorry you have to be in that situation