Neither Man Nor Women

The definition of genderqueer quotes; "Genderqueer (GQ) and intergender are catch-all terms for gender identities other than man and woman. People who identify as genderqueer may think of themselves as being both man and woman, as being neither man nor woman, or as falling completely outside the gender binary".

In my case I feel I am a women but at the same time I feel as I should be a man. So in a sense I do not believe I am one or the other. Reasons being, when it comes down to physical differences, I believe I should have been born with both breasts and a penis. This obviously, does not classify as being one sex; one or the other.

Sometimes it can be very hard for me to understand this myself, why I should feel that I should have been born that way, why I'm not happy the way I am. Intercourse for me is horrible as I do not like "things" up me but would rather put "me" inside someone else and I would never get rid of my breasts as much as they may annoy me at times.
XanthiaJo XanthiaJo
26-30, F
1 Response Jul 19, 2010

I agree about having both breasts and a penis. When I see people who have both those, I think "that's how I feel on the inside!" Most days I feel like "I know who I am, but when people look at me, they just see some girl".