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Abuse

By: brokenhearted1999
Written on April 22nd, 2012
Age: 13-15 , Female
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    tybow84

    My father used to beat the hell out of me and I have never forgiven him for it. I still have lots of self esteam and self worth issues to work through. All I can say is that if you can't or wont sand up for yourself, who will? Letting someone hurt you isn't cool. Be it physical, sexual, emotional or spiritual, abuse can be stopped but you have to be willing to take the first step. I am sure that you are a good person and I am also sure it can be hard to see that worth with someone close to you treating you unjustly. If you do what you have always done, you will get what you have always gotten. I was sexually abused by my mother's boyfriend when I was a kid and I didn't tell anyone about it for years. It came out in others ways though. As a kid I was always getting into trouble and it wasn't because I was a bad person or kid, it was becasue I was abused and didn't know how to tell someone. This step dad of yours sounds like he should be locked up behind bars for a very long time. Best of luck to you, and I hope you seek out the help you need. Just posting this on here has to feel somewhat better, getting it off your chest. As a last thought, I leave you with this: If you don't stop your step father from doing harm to you, what is to stop him from doing it to someone else? God bless you and I will pray for you, because even if you don't see it, your worth it
    TK

    Nov 6, 2012
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    jordan12345676543

    My girlfriend went through this until just after we got together, I put him in his place, jail, he has since gotten out, and gone back to see her, but he won't do anything, he knows next time, it won't be cops being semi-respectful to him, because I could take him and he knows it. But don't just take it hun, you can't let him keep doing it, you just have to take a stand, and I know it can be hard, but you have to

    Nov 6, 2012
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    polynesian1

    UGH!,I JUST HATE IT WHEN MEN HIT ON FEMALES! THEY ARE NOTHING BUT LITTLE B*****,HOW WOULD HE LIKE TO HIT ON A 6'0,235 POUND, BLACK AND HAWWAIIN (MAN) I PROMISE YOU HE WILL NEVER EVEN THINK TO HIT A FEMALE AGIAN!( AND FOR YOU KEEP YOUR HEAD UP,AND STAY STRONG) AND SENSE THERES NO MAN TO PROTECT YOU AROUND,(CALL 911) THE (COPS)

    Nov 1, 2012
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    teekitten79

    you should go to the police. Although in domestic cases it is difficult. I remember one time when I was about 15, I was on the phone with my friend, when my dad in a drunken stupor crashed down my door and started choking me. My friend called the police and he was taken to jail. But then he came back and it started all over again. Perhaps there is an outreach program at school or even the department of children and family services. You don't deserve to die. He does.

    Sep 28, 2012
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    heathermariebee

    why wont you go to the cops?

    Aug 23, 2012
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    radjehuty

    This is such a terrible thing to hear. Even if you don't want to go to the cops directly you should consider doing it indirectly by talking to a counselor of some kind. Like a guidance counselor from your school? It's terrible what he's doing to you and I hope you find the strength to give him back what he deserves. People should know what he is and what he does. You deserve a better life than what he's giving you. Please find the strength to change this situation. What if he's capable of hurting other people? Nobody should ever feel like their life is worth nothing just because someone else decides to make them miserable. You're your own person.

    Aug 22, 2012
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    underthescars

    I am angry and devastated when I hear things like this. There is absolutely NO excuse! It is very frightening to get help, especially living in fear. But he cannot get away with what he is doing. I hope you don't mind me saying, but I will pray that my God will deliver you from his evil hands and that wrath be upon him and you can and will be loved for the truly beautiful person that you are inside and out.

    Aug 21, 2012
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    Marseillesinlove

    i wish i can do something to reduce ur pain but i know its not that simple. but u need to keep ur head up, b brave n go to the nearest police office. d u live in germany or US?

    Aug 21, 2012
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    Dreammmer

    Ich hoffe dass du Menschen findest, die dir helfen. Es gibt andere, die einen Weg aus dem Missbrauch gefunden haben und gegangen sind. Ich wünsche dir Gutes.

    Aug 21, 2012
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    danielm85948

    google a child helpline for your town,you need help ,you say you will not report this,but you have a right not to live in fear,do you fear not having a place to stay,or if you report him no one will believe you,those helpline number will believe you,and give you a safe place to stay,they are just a phone call away,just google them.

    Jun 24, 2012
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    blueleptir

    Please,please be brave & get some help. You owe it to yourself!Hug.

    Jun 16, 2012
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    wolfman17

    I left my home when step father put acid and bobwire around my neck don't think that way it will turn you to a place you proble don't wut to go.

    May 12, 2012
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    wolfman17

    I left my home when step father put acid and bobwire around my neck don't think that way it will turn you to a place you proble don't wut to go.

    May 12, 2012
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    wolfman17

    I left my home when step father put acid and bobwire around my neck don't think that way it will turn you to a place you proble don't wut to go.

    May 12, 2012
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    RickiChickie

    Do you live in Germany?

    Then this might be helpful:

    https://www.nummergegenkummer.de/cms/website.php



    (((Hugs)))

    May 11, 2012
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    brokenhearted1999

    Death is gods way of saying your fired suicide is humans way of saying you can't fire me I quit

    May 2, 2012
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    Unique4real

    Oh! think about the joy you will have when know that this non human who so called father sent away from you an dyou get proper treatment as never wish to die ever as you are young, beautiful, and i bet you got a talent so step up say no report it never let him break you down as you are strong if ever needed help just message me as will read everything you write and will try to help you in any way. Take care there and hope you think much about reporting as it is your right to defend yourself and ask for help for what your dad do against. It is not you who made him do this abuse as it is his sick mother ****** mind who he got so never let him amke it like it is your fault.

    May 2, 2012
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