My Husband Wants A Divorce. Not An Easy Time For Me. Can Anyone Give Me Some Advice?
Hi. I have been with my husband for almost 5 years and been married for 3. It seems that he hates me. I have done nothing but cater to him andd be a good wife. He has told me maky times that he isnt happy because so are not complatible and always the same stupid broken record. I have everything you can imagine for him to be happy and always try to tell him we can make it work and that I will try to change. Yes, I have gone so far as to lower myself and i guess "begg" him to stay in the marriage. It always comes down to we are not working out, we are very different, you are this and that and I'm not happy. I can't no longer take his putting me down and catering to his every need. I love him but I'm sure he doesn't or else he woudn't want to quit on us. I love him but I love myself more. I finaly said ok I respect your decition. We don't have kids together but he does have one from a previous marriage. We own a house together and 2 dogs. I am going throught a very hard time does anone have any advice for me? He is rude and mean to me and disrespects me. I have tried to chose my battles and let a lot go for the sake of getting along but today I finaly gave up. I feel so sad and like I have fail. Truth is, he wants a model wife. Hw wants me to cook, clean, work to help with bills which i have always done and top it off look like a model when he gets home. Is it my fault? Should I have tried harded? or did I try enough? I feel so sad right now. Any advice?