My Best (ex) Friend And My Soon To Be Ex HusbandSo glad I found this place. I am now not alone. My story.....
My husband and I were married for 18 years. I fell madly in love with him, we got married and then he had several affairs early in our marriage. I know I never got over it. But I stayed married to him and we had two very wonderful children. The last several years have been very rough. We had a couple who were our best friends and we spent a lot of time together. She was my best friend. I mean my very best friend. My husband and I decided to get a divorce and I am good with that. Better for our entire family. Then four days later my best friend announces she is divorcing her husband. This was no surprise as their marriage was bad. Then she tells me that if my husband were to ask her out, she would go out with him. We spent an hour on the phone dicussing this and she cannot believe I have a problem with this!
Now they are dating and apparently are going to live together! Neither one of them understands why I have a problem with this. It is killing me and my 10 year old daughter is freaking out.
This woman is telling all of our friends and they just cannot believe it. Who does this?
I am trying to be strong and keep telling myself to stop thinking about it. It is hard but I will make it.
Thanks for listening! Nice to have a group who has had similiar experiences.
Good luck to everyone here!