I Am Getting a Divorce
Hey EP friends!
I too am getting, have gotten and have filed for a DIVORCE!
Its officially!!!!.......as of 7/10/2012 @ 8:09 a.m. EST I went to my local Superior Courthouse, with papers and court feesin my hand to END this aggravating, annoying, asine marriage of 16 or so years. Tooooooooooooooo long!
WOW, its been a long time! I planned, contemplated, thought it out, reflected, pondered and then JUMPED right (feet first) into the world DIVORCE court CIRCUS.
So far, its been crazy, its been sad, angry, disappointing, relief, painful, lonely, and yet I am ok with it.
My story is.............that I filed last year around September for a divorce and had a different experience. The timing, season, mood, climate, and my overall disposition was totally different this go ROUND.
What a fabulous day to file last week it was...July is amazing...hot, but AMAZING!!!.
This time I did not have the gnawing, sinking pit feeling in my stomach like i did last year. I had a smile of embrace, hope, change and positiveness this time, and my fighting suit on. What a difference a year has made.
And after months of prior planning prevents poor performance...I did the %%#$ thing! I had to, to save my SANITY! lol
I know I have a long road, a battle uphill, intimidation/fear factors AHEAD and that will exists. But this time I have support of my family and friends who are with me and want to see my HAPPY and for this process to be over with as soon as possible!
My ex-spouse has gone back to his threatening ways, I knew it was coming and it was a matter of time. So I did as much planning in the beginning so I could be ready for the WAR! I kept my mouth shut, my ear open and I work hard at accomplishing my goals. And it paid off! I am now finally able to see the FOREST for the TREES after several years of being UNHAPPY, and many months of worrying about should I file for divorce or not. I internalize the process way toooooooooo much!
No mas!
After getting my ephiphany from Katie Holmes I knew it was TIME and now is the TIME for me to be READY!
I can only expect the worst , and hope for the BEST. Who knows what tomorrow will bring. I do know this...............I am GETTING A DIVORCE and I WANT TO BE HAPPY!
yolo - do it!
I too am getting, have gotten and have filed for a DIVORCE!
Its officially!!!!.......as of 7/10/2012 @ 8:09 a.m. EST I went to my local Superior Courthouse, with papers and court feesin my hand to END this aggravating, annoying, asine marriage of 16 or so years. Tooooooooooooooo long!
WOW, its been a long time! I planned, contemplated, thought it out, reflected, pondered and then JUMPED right (feet first) into the world DIVORCE court CIRCUS.
So far, its been crazy, its been sad, angry, disappointing, relief, painful, lonely, and yet I am ok with it.
My story is.............that I filed last year around September for a divorce and had a different experience. The timing, season, mood, climate, and my overall disposition was totally different this go ROUND.
What a fabulous day to file last week it was...July is amazing...hot, but AMAZING!!!.
This time I did not have the gnawing, sinking pit feeling in my stomach like i did last year. I had a smile of embrace, hope, change and positiveness this time, and my fighting suit on. What a difference a year has made.
And after months of prior planning prevents poor performance...I did the %%#$ thing! I had to, to save my SANITY! lol
I know I have a long road, a battle uphill, intimidation/fear factors AHEAD and that will exists. But this time I have support of my family and friends who are with me and want to see my HAPPY and for this process to be over with as soon as possible!
My ex-spouse has gone back to his threatening ways, I knew it was coming and it was a matter of time. So I did as much planning in the beginning so I could be ready for the WAR! I kept my mouth shut, my ear open and I work hard at accomplishing my goals. And it paid off! I am now finally able to see the FOREST for the TREES after several years of being UNHAPPY, and many months of worrying about should I file for divorce or not. I internalize the process way toooooooooo much!
No mas!
After getting my ephiphany from Katie Holmes I knew it was TIME and now is the TIME for me to be READY!
I can only expect the worst , and hope for the BEST. Who knows what tomorrow will bring. I do know this...............I am GETTING A DIVORCE and I WANT TO BE HAPPY!
yolo - do it!
By:
chie5189
Age:
36-40
