Wish It Were Done Already
I have been married for 5 years and separated for two of those. I have two beautiful children, who unfortunately are going to be effected by this no matter how it turns out. I officially filed for divorce 3 weeks ago. My husband still lives in the same house as I do, ( we rent separate floors from my mothers home ). He is making it unbearable at times, as he does not want a divorce. He is constantly telling me that God dissaproves of divorce, that I need to get my life right with God, and that I am hurting the children, etc... He has made comments in front of the children that " I am throwing Daddy away". As with everyone there is a long story here but at this moment, I am not getting into that. Throughout our marriage, I allowed myself, through him, to lose some friendships, and the rest I lost when I left the church. So now I really don't have anyone to truely share ( without judgement ) about getting a divorce. Thanks for letting me post.