I am having a relationship with a man who is married. I meet him while he was saparated and we hand intense time while we were together. Long story short he went back to her and I'm still in, I don't know what to call it, love. I know he is a great person and father, but he is very self serving. I've tried to get over him. See other people, made a new set of friends outside of ours together. In attempting to move foward, but every time I see him, he speaks to my soul. It's a lonely situation to want what I once had and another now has. I have choosen to keep seeing him. When I try to move on I have a hole in my heart. A piece of me missing. But when I with him all the pain and anger goes away, all the tears, and I embraces him fully. This had been going on for a year n a half now. I don't know what to do to make the hold he has on me lessen. I'm in need of an unbias opinionĀ 
Kadie85 Kadie85
1 Response Nov 27, 2012

Sweetheart, this man is not good for you or his wife or his children. He takes only the good parts from each of you and thats not real life that is a fantasy. You are full of love and there is a good man out there who is waiting for that. It's human natureto want what is denied us. Use the love within you to nurture your own soul. Embrace your tears and anger for they help you to feel the difference between happy and sad. How can you trust any man who can do this to his wife ? You are worth so much more trust me.xx