Well mediation is done but still not dusted. We came to an agreement in regards to our his visitation with our daughter but the finacials are a different story. I really feel sorry for the stupid man, he's told so many lies that he actually tried to lie to me and make me believe! ohh ahahahah Now my lawyer has asked him for some proof of his claims that I know he wont be able to provide. His parents are also living in a delusional world, believing that thier son is comming to our town for over a week at a time and wanting to see his daughter but I won't let him. In the last 5 months, he has only asked to see her 3 times and he HAS seen her 3 times. They all like to look at me as if im the bad guy... I can honestly say I have done nothing wrong, I am not guilty of any crime or keeping him away from his daughter, I cancelled childsupport and have asked for nothing from him. I have gotten where I am solely on my own. He has all the furniture and every single one of our previous assets, claiming that some dont exsist but thanks to good old ebay I was able to prove through his feedback that he had sold $13,000 worth of motorbikes and has another $12,000 listed. He then claimed that these were sold before the separation. HAHAHAHA the lawyer pointed out that ebay is dated and the last bike sold about a week ago! So he now has to provide his proof of his claims and wont be able too... really looking forward to how he's going to explain that to his mummy and daddy! As for the sale of our house, he is trying to get whatever he can but it looks like the entirety of the property settlement will go straight to me and if it does he's still getting off easy. So I guess in the end being the good person, keeping my nose clean and staying on the true path is going to reward me, but it doesn't produce the rewards immediatly like doing the wrong thing. That really annoys me! My husband left me and ran straight into the arms of a beautifull woman that I could never compete with, he has sold so many of our assests and has more money than he's ever had while we were together (he's not paying his bills either) And to top it all off the visitation with our daughter is very fair to him. Oh and I don't think I have mentioned in any of my previous posts but.... The woman my husband left me for met her online and they talked for about 10 days before they met face to face and decided that they are in love. I honestly don't think i could even fall inlove with a puppy within 10 days! So he's blissfully happy and I am stuck with an unsteady future and a heavy, beaten, bruised and broken heart. Wondering what my future could possibly hold and how in the world my life spiralled into the place. I was a great wife and an excellent mother and although im not a stunning beauty or have the body of a dancer I loved my family with all my heart and soul and would never of done anything to hurt anyone least of all my family.