I am going through a seperation. My husband of almost 9 years has left....again. This is the 3rd time in 3 years he has packed up and moved out. We have three children, ages 2, 4 and 6. He has said that he cannot stand my complaining and nagging. I do now that I have done those things but he is not perfect either. I am wanting to make it work and all he wants is out. I don't know what to do so I don't do anything. I guess I just want to connect with people who are going through the same experience.