I Don't Know What To Do

My husband of twenty five years yesterday told me he no longer wants to be married to me. He s unhappy so needs to go. So he left... My heart is broken but I want him to be happy. Will this pain ever ever get better?
Jude3 Jude3
46-50, F
1 Response Jan 24, 2013

I also will be going through a seperation after 24 years of marriage. My husband had told me a month ago that how much I would need if he moved out. I know that he has been having an affair when I confronted him his reply was their was no one. Long story short I'm hurting and I just waiting for him to leave at this point. My children have not been told yet . I've been through this before and I.took him back 10 years ago when he wanted to come back home. Anyway, I'm tired and need help in understanding my feelings.

It hurts so much, so confusing - all these thoughts and emotions are driving me mad. Sleep...forget it. I m sorry you are going through the same thing. I ve just come out of a horrible four year illness, yet believe me, this pain is so so much worse. But we have to go on. Taking one moment at a time and accepting that moment for what it is - a first small step forwards away from this mess. We re not alone. So many people have survived this. We can too x