Is It Ok To Have Sex During Separation?I had to "kick" my husband out of the house because he's addicted to drugs and alcohol and he started to act violent with me and around the kids... I told him he could always come back if he went into rehab and seek help.
we've been a month separated and have started to see a therapist individually.
The therapist told me we have to be at least another month separated, plus if he admits he's addiction is a problem it will be 2 more months separated which is the rehab program in my country.
Problem is that my husband is putting up a lot of excuses and is clearly not in his right mind, he believes we're separated because, well, he says I'm a nagging wife who does not let him hang out with his friends (note: his friends are drug addicts as well)...also, 2 weeks ago he said he wanted to fix things and last week he said he wants a divorce and now he just doesn't say anything...
I am horny and i tried to have a conversation with him about what to do with our sexual lives during separation but he refused to talk to me...
I have a friend, well ... do you think it is ok to have sex with him? ....i will never do a public indiscretion because of the kids and also because i dont want to add more complications to the situation....should i do it and be discrete about it?
CinnamonCake 31-35, F 0 Feb 6, 2013