After 6 years of marriage and another 8 of dating I have decided it is in the best interest of me and my children to separate from my husband. i have no idea what the next step is. I just want this to be as easy as possible for ALL of us! i can't live like this anymore. A loveless home is not appropriate for any of us! My children are my world! I want them to see us in a different light. They feel the tention and at 3 and 5 that is so unfair!