After 6 years of marriage and another 8 of dating I have decided it is in the best interest of me and my children to separate from my husband. i have no idea what the next step is. I just want this to be as easy as possible for ALL of us! i can't live like this anymore. A loveless home is not appropriate for any of us! My children are my world! I want them to see us in a different light. They feel the tention and at 3 and 5 that is so unfair!

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2 Responses Aug 18, 2009

another 8 of dating ? I am not quite sure what you meant, You dated other ppl ?

That's a wise decision ,and the children for most part will adjust to it .<br />
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Try to get into good talking terms with your husband and things will turnout for the best ,if you both try to be fair in the divorce the relationship afterward can be better than the marriage .<br />
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Or option two : be mean and spiteful and years later you can't even ask for the time of day without a fight .