I have bee married for 14 years to a wonderful man, who is a perfect father to our kids. He gives me everything i could ever want. About 2 years ago, i rekindled an old friendship with a man i know for about 20 years. I met him long before i met my husband, and we have always been friends. For the past 2 years we have been in a relationship. We both care for each other dearly, and cant be away from each other. He is also married with kids. He loves his wife, and i love my husband, but we also love each other. we dont see each other often, cause we live in different states, but when we do, its magic. We have never had sex yet, but we do have intimate moments, which we both treasure. We both love and care for our families, but we love and care for each other too. Is there anyone else out there in a similar situation? How do u cope in a situation like this. It hurts so much that we cant be together.