I filed, he was served, we evn went to my lawyers office together, but he still thinks its not happening. he want me to try to work things out one day at a time. You see, he has heeen verbally and emotionally abusive for 14 yrs. I finally found the courage to get this done. I dont love him. Actually most times I cant stand him. He still belittles me ,even in front of my 3 kids. THEn he ha sthe ner ve to say he still loves me and wants to start having sex again. ewww. Any advice would surely help. thanx in advance.