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Second Time Around

I AM GOING THROUGH MY SECOND DIVORCE.  I THOUGHT FOR SURE THIS WAS MY FINAL MARRIAGE.  I MARRIED MY SOULMATE.  I LOVE HER WITH ALL MY HEART; HOWEVER HER JEALOUSLY, MANIPULATION AND PHYSICAL ABUSE TOWARD ME MADE IT IMPOSSIBLE FOR ME TO STAY IN THIS MARRIAGE.  BECAUSE MY KIDS WITNESSED SOME OF THE PHYSICAL ABUSE, I HAD THE DEPARTMENT OF CHILDREN AND FAMALIES OPEN AN INVESTIGATION.  LOVE IS NOT ENOUGH AND NOBODY I MEAN NOBODY HAS THE RIGHT TO PUT THEIR HANDS ON THEIR SPOUSES OUT OF ANGER.

caseman67 caseman67 41-45 1 Response Aug 25, 2009

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In my case the one who started with the physical contact or damage was my husband. I let it go until it was too late. I then became the one doing the hitting. He left and blames me for everything even the hitting. I'm glad that he is gone, he made the worse come out of me. Truth be told, i don't even know why i hit him, i guess after being hit 3 times this last time i needed to defend myself and show him how it feels to be hit by the one you love. I regret it, i wouldn't do it again. do i blame him? No. It was my wrongdoing. However, i do believe that he had some responsibility for my lashing out behavior.