I'm Not Judging Any Individuals Here
Before anyone comes and makes some harsh comments or blocks me or whatever, I need to make it clear that I am speaking of society in general here...not any specific people. So don't think I'm bashing you or anything.
People are just becoming indecent and irresponsible these days...and I'm sick of it. The main thing, although not the only thing, that I've noticed is sexuality...people think it's okay just to go and flaunt their sexuality like it's no big deal.
For one thing, there's the whole abortion issue...people are either pro-choice or pro-life. Well here's the thing...I'm pro-choice AND pro-life. Now I can understand if you're for abortion because of rape or sexual abuse or anything like that. But in every other case of pregnancy, if the sex wasn't forced on you, you made the choice. The woman made the choice when she had sex with the man. If she didn't do that, she wouldn't have had a baby. So now she has to suffer the consequences of being immature, irresponsible, and giving into her impulses. Killing a baby is no way to get out of your own responsibility. It's not the baby's fault that she got pregnant, it is her own. Like I said, this does not apply in cases of rape or anything, so I can understand where you're coming from if you're talking about that.
It seems like everywhere I turn, I see something sexual. I turn on the TV and see "Sex and the City." Then I turn on the radio and hear some song by Akon called "I Wanna F*** You." Then I get online on any social networking site (not necessarily EP) and see someone's profile with a half-naked avatar, and under "hobbies" or "interests" or whatever, it says something like "having sex"...and their entire profile has to do with sex! SEX SEX SEX SEX SEX SEX SEX!!! Isn't there anything else that people can think about? I'm not saying there's anything wrong with sex, but there is more to life! I have interests too...like horseback riding. But it's not all I ever talk about and think about! Sexuality is a natural part of every human being, but that's the thing...it's a PART of you, not who you are! You're not just some walking, talking penis or vagina! You have a brain, use it! Use your brain to make decisions, not your gonads!
I've made some comments relating to this issue on Ep, and people call me immature. This makes no sense....I'M THE IMMATURE ONE??? I'm not the one going around wearing my sexuality on my sleeve! Just to let you know, I'm in my "sexual peak." Men go through their sexual peak in their late teens and early 20s. I have sexual desires. I have sexual fantasies. I even **********, believe it or not. I see scantily dressed girls, and I see hotties on TV and think, "Man, she would be so much fun to have sex with." But I don't give into those impulses. I'm more mature than that.
Promiscuous people go around and have sex with people carelessly, and then years down the road, when they have three unwanted children and five STD's they're complaining about why they have to be put through this. I just want to slap them across the face and say, "Well, DUH! You asked for it when you had all that sex! If you had just used your head and not given into your animal instincts, none of this would have ever happened to you!" But guess what...I don't say that, even though I want to. That's because I'm not giving into my impulses! I control my instincts and use my brain instead of my testosterone!
Then women go around wearing tiny little thongs and stuff. They get tons of boyfriends, and all these guys want are sex...they don't care anything about the girl as a person. Then the girl complains about, "Why are all guys such jerks? They treat me like an ob
I'm talking about mainly sex here, but like I said at first, it's not just that. People seem to just be irresponsible in lots of things. Another example would be drug and alcohol abuse. People try drugs and alcohol, get addicted, and years down the road, they're homeless and unemployed saying that the world isn't being fair to them. WELL DUH! You're the one who took the pill or smoked the crack or whatever! The world is being completely fair to you!
Why can't people just grow up and take responsibility for their own actions???
As I said before, I'm not picking on any individuals here, I'm just talking about irresponsible people in general. So don't take this personally and try to bash me because you think I'm trying to bash you. I'm not...I'm just freakin' fed up with this irresponsible, sex-obsessed society.