I Have Had Lesbian Sex

lewiscarroll~~ respectfully, I didn't really hear anything in that story other than this person's belief toward their own life, and part of "experiences" is that they contain change and restore our beliefs. I myself am a lesbian, and I don't quite agree with the belief that it is a sin or that God would punish us for it; yet, I don't feel that this is an attempt to convert people to religion. She, in fact, doesn't even state her adopted religion here. It walks and talks like a description of a personal experience. I am not trying to offend you, I am merely defending this person's right to speak about her own life.



daughterof~~ as for your story; I can understand what you mean about your guilt because you believe it is a sin and because you loved a woman who would turn out to hurt you. It seemed to fit in your mind, I can see. I implore you, however, to review this perception of those events. I know lesbians who have fallen in love and had beautiful lives; God did not punish them. God gave them beautiful children and kind love, as far as they and I believe. They are not the only such couple, either. I'm not saying that you should or shouldn't be a lesbian or otherwise, but I would hope that you could relieve yourself of the guilt of the act of loving a woman. What happened to you was not good, but that is not the rule for lesbian and gay relationships; they can be very good. This is my opinion and you don't have to take it: I do not think that God (if there's one up there) punishes people on this earth; I think that God gives people the freedom of choice and he can't protect good people from the choices of bad people without relinquishing the freedom that he gives us all; bad things happen because there are bad people, and we are free to either be strong or weak in this world. I don't personally believe in religion because words are as malleable as clay and capable of creating man-made images of God (that's just my personal belief, with respect to whatever yours might be) but I believe in God as the possibly of a physical force, and I believe that God's effect on our minds is the thing that is good in us which we can keep or let go of. That good has nothing to do with being homo or hetero-sexual; the good is in the kindness of people and strength to hope. Again, this is my opinion and I cannot force you to believe what I believe, I wouldn't want you to be forced, because you are FREE to choose, but I hope that you alleviate your own suffering in the God of forgiveness rather than the God of justice.

God is not punishing you.

What's with the name?



Also, this website is about sharing experiences, not trying to convert people to religion. Please keep your beliefs to yourself.



Thank you.