Being Childfree And Dating In Your 40'sI have been divorced for almost eleven years now and trying to date. i am always being asked why I don't have children. I never know what to say because people judge you right away. Try explaining that to a guy you want to date. I honestly get judged and it is so hard. It is not as if I don't like children. I just didn't think I could handle having them. Is that so wrong? It is bad enough explaining why I am still single, but now I have to add this to my list of things to explain.
Can anyone give me some suggestions on what to say so it stops them from asking? I think it should be your own choice what you do and just because you don't do what everyone else does, it doesn't make you a bad person.