Sex Is Great

My wife and I, married 2 years now, are very happy and very much in love, however I still crave a **** to suck every now and then. She doesn't know this and I am not sure I could ever tell her.
lifeinsane lifeinsane
46-50, M
6 Responses Jul 15, 2010

Do a swinging relationship.

My wife didn't take it well when I told her. It wasn't that she flew into a tantrum or anything but she decided that I was gay and that I'd been lying about it. We had to talk it through and she eventually came around and thought it was hot, asking me to talk about me and **** while I ****** her. That led to more adventures.<br />
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Having "the talk" is super important, if for no other reason than keeping secrets is corossive. I sure don't envy guys who have yet to broach it. Everyone's different but for us I simply began asking her during sex if she ever fantasized about eating *****. After some denials she admited she'd thought about it. Over the next few sessions I brought it up again and she finally asked me if I thought about sucking ****. Told her I did more than think about it before we'd met. <br />
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It worked out well for me in the end but it could just as easilly gone down flames.

Im in the same boat. I have craved men since I was 12 but I hide it now im married for 20 years and I can't get enough man on man action. I wish she would join but she wont.

Im in the same boat. I have craved men since I was 12 but I hide it now im married for 20 years and I can't get enough man on man action. I wish she would join but she wont.

Good luck to you both! It is an awesome thing to do with your wife. I'm bi and she was, too. Unfortunately, (due to other reasons) I'm now divorced. We had one hell of a sex life together for 22+ years.

I hear ya brother. I've been married a lot longer and my wife doesn't know about my fantasy either. She knows that I would love to see her ******* other men (and unfortunately she has no interest in that) but she doesn't know that I crave a nice hard **** to suck as well.