Perfect For Me

It'll be six years pretty soon.  This is a second marriage for both of us.  I won't spend much time on comparisons between the first one and the second one, but it's so completely different that it's often hard to remember anything about the first one.

My wife isn't perfect, but she is perfect for me.  I guess that line's become a cliché, but it's very appropriate for us.  It's a wonderful thing to be with someone who loves me for who I am, and who shows me that love in so many different ways.  It helps that she has a strong sex drive, since I tend to be randy most of the time.  We have enjoyed exploring each other and trying new things.  

We laugh a lot.  That makes a huge difference.  We also try to be more polite to each other than we are even to others; neither of us wants to take the other for granted.  We have really gotten spoiled.  People say that a good relationship takes work, and I suppose it does, but the things that might be work in another relationship are easy in this one.  It's a wonderful thing to be in love, and I'm a very lucky, very happy guy.

howler58 howler58
51-55, M
4 Responses Feb 27, 2010

LOVE AND ENJOY HER I wish that my wife were still here. She supported me and all of my kinks.

I'd like to hear more about what you mean, softscreamer...I've heard others talk about male and female approaches to love and sex, but I'm not entirely sure I believe that men and women are so very different. Please elaborate.

Thanks! We're happy.

Congrats. It seems that many get initially married to the "wrong" person which is sad for both partners. Luckily you found each other. We have a similar story as you guys and that was 12 years ago when we found each other.