I Am Hated

Before we get to the bad, let's start with the good. I met my boyfriend Sophomore year. It took a two year flirtmance, but it has all been worth it. The eleven months, give or take, we have been together has been amazing, and we've gotten serious. For a long time though, I was a secret. He never told his parents we we're together, but that has since changed. We are young still, and only Seniors in high school, but we are serious about each others, and like many others blinded by love, have began to manipulate our future plans to coincide. Now here's the problem. I went and mucked things up with his family. His sisters and mum have never particularly liked me, and his father always seemed to be indifferent to me. But, last night one of his sisters texted me pretending to be him. And I made an inappropriate joke about him lifting my skirt (which he had done earlier in the day), and getting turned on. Then his sister revealed her identity to me and preceded to tell me how out of line i was. I was pissed and wanted to say so much, but tried as best I could to keep a level head. I explained to her that my skirt hit the floor and he had only pulled in up to my knees (which was true), and said that I didn't need to explain myself to her (which I admit was not the best idea). I wanted to say that she should talk to her brother about it instead of harassing me, or mind her own business completely, but I held my tongue. She then responded by threatening me to stay away from her brother, or else. I decided to try a softer approach, and replied explaining that if it was best that I stayed away, then I would, because I love him and would never do anything that I thought would hurt him, or hold him back, but that it wasn't. I guess she gave the phone to their mum at that point because his mum texted me and told me that she was angry at the both of us, and that I needed to stop seeing her son. She also questioned as to what all we had done (like I was going to tell her). Now the whole lot of them hates me, and even though my boyfriend told them that he wasn't going to stop seeing me and there was nothing they could say to change that, I still feel angry at myself. I know he's not going to split, but I also know how hard its going to be from now on since we are after all still in high school. I like to think that when we graduate we can just leave it all behind us, since my home life is **** anyways. But, I know that's not going to happen. He's close with his family. He says I'm the one he wants to marry, and I like to think that's true. I just feel like this whole situation has spiraled out of control, and that his family constantly being in his ear is going to tear a huge rift in our relationship. I am hated, and I don;t know what to do.
Julietindistress Julietindistress
18-21, F
Nov 27, 2012