I Have a Wonderful Friend

Thank you -- it's definitely been a great experience.

Like water off a ducks back....absolutely.

Yeah - ND was right. I need to let it roll right off ... :)

Glad you deleted all that MizzB.



Good!

NO!



lol...Not you notdarcy....

No - I don't think so ND -- from what I hear you have a nice *** :) LOL

Hey,chris - I hope you didn't mean me! : )

Thanks ND - sorry. Seriously lost my head for the minute -- you are right. thanks to you too chris.

Hey MizzB. I think you're awesome.



Don't worry about what that *** is sayin.

Mizz...As your friend,I ask you this: is this guy really worth getting into the gutter for? It's real nasty,and things always end up in the sewer...

Rule Number One with attention-seekers - ignore them. Block them,report to EPSupport if they overstep the mark - but it undermines your case if you blow your stack and overstep it right back.

These people work off the rebound.

So don't hit to them.

Yeah, I wanted him to also know that he can post intelligently, but don't slam us. You may not like it, then don't read it :)

haha you are way too funny GHY - no, NO hatred in you *LMAO*. Why don't you say the same liltte speech to ALL of the men that are on this site to.



Yeah -you are so right, I'm going back to my sham life, where I am sure I make a hell of a lot more money in one year than you will. That probably annoys you too because I am a woman.



I am truly happy and not hurtful to people - people who have to constantly judge others need to take a great look in the mirror. If your marriage was so great, why did it end?? hmm - that's a great question. Suck it up - truth hurts.



You are right - you are so happy in your perfect, non angry, non judgmental life. that you are on this post attacking the women who post here. Let me provide some EP etiquette to you: You REALLY shouldn't post negative and nasty comments under the group you are against. People have gotten kicked off for this.



If you disagree - be a gentleman - disagree. Oh - wait a minute, I am the lousy, sad, depressed, will never be happy ***** right?? Hmmm - I guess I couldn't be a lady then huh??



Touche GHY -- you too really need to get off these message boards and get a life.



WOW - and notice - I said that with NO derogatory OR foul words. hmmmm ..... It's a shame that you can't. You have really picked the WRONG woman to bully sir.

Be man - disappear.

I'm glad Velvette.



And GHY - same thing I said before. It's also really funny - you name. As I know God - God does no one - he hates the sin, loves the sinner, so ... maybe you need to re-examine the hatred in you.

Thank you. I just wanted people to understand that sometimes you can meet people and they really, REALLY are great people who help you become more devoted to your life.



He really has been more of a great friend than a lover, and I can't say anything bad about that. : )

Sounds good MB. I'm happy for you.

CPA - I am really glad you brought this point up.

I am still giving him a fair try, and he is giving me a fair try too. I am working through a lot of anger, etc., but I am not giving up on him.



Yes - I did do this, for a lack of a lot of things. That doesn't make this right, I know.



And I also know, that the reason that I enjoy this is because there is no baggage or day-to-day stuff to handle. And for just a couple of hours, I can completely let go - during that time only.



I always have my eyes WIDE open in regards to this. I KNOW that this not my real, every day life and never will be. I have absolutely NO grandiose ideas that even SLIGHTLY have me thinking that anything will come of this, or that he will sweep me off of my feet, etc. No - no fantasies like this for me.



I know that when this is over, and done with, I will still be where I am. I'm not sure that this hasn't changed my perception somewhat, but I can honestly say that I will still be prepared to deal with the day to day **** of life, with or without my husband. We have a lot to work through, and we are.



I may be doing this backwards, but for me, it works for now.

Thank you : ) Makes life much easier, and fun too!

I feel your happiness so much from this... you have written this beautifully. I can't see how anyone couldn't relate to what you are feeling here! I hope you continue to embrace this and feel this way!

I am so glad that you have some happiness to grab onto, Mizz. (((big hugs)))

I am glad you guys can relate. For so many of us, this is more true than most people will ever know.

This is a wonderful story. Thank you for sharing it. I can relate on so many levels with this.

Thank you guys. I do feel happy, and grounded. I know A LOT of people will not understand this. If it wasn't for this relationship, I would have left my husband. This is not always a bad thing!

I am joyous for you too.

This is the 1st time for me, to hear and feel you so grounded and calm. I'm happy you have someone who is so good to you.