i am recently having problems with my boyfriend. we have only been together 9 months and i am afraid that we are growing apart. he tells me that he doesn't feel that 'spark' anymore and i dont know what to do about it. i try to talk to him, but i'm not good at talking so it takes a while for me to get what i want out ... out. and hes a total ******* about it. he doesn't want to talk about it or anything. its like he doesn't want to help in any way, and i have no idea what else to do but leave for a litle while. and tomorrow that what i'm going to do... i'm going to go to my friends house after i leave work and stay there for a little while. my plan is to come home while he is gone and clean and do simple things just to make him appreciate me, but not be at home when he is... when he calls me i will play dumb and just talk about how much i am having fun and what i do that day... or lie about what i do that day, make everything be so great, and put him after friends and work like he does to me, instead of first like he should. and give him a taste of his own medicine in a way, but i will be a little worse. and i will do this until he tells me he wants me to come home and be with him. a little break might just be the best solution.