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I Am Having Boyfriend Problems

Please Answer This Asap! I Need Advice):

By: confusedddgirl
Written on February 6th, 2013
Me and my boyfriend have been going out for 2 years and when we started going out we just clicked perfectly I can be completley who I am and I just love him to death. There is a downside.. As our relationship got longer and longer he became so controlling slowly it first started with him making me stop hanging out with my guy bestfriend and he made me think that It was right and I just don't know what to do because its gotten so bad where he tells me who I can and cannot follow on instagram and twitter and what not and I really don't know what to do because I love him so much and he means alot to me just he became such a nessesity to my life im scared to loose him but hes so controlling. HELP ME.
By: confusedddgirl
Age: 16-17 , Female
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  • shakenama
    shakenama

    He tells you who you can and cannot follow on twitter and instagram? WTF! He needs to know that even though he's your boyfriend, you're not 10......you can make your own decisions concerning your social life. He's being manipulative...playing you like a puppet. That's not love.



    I know you love him, but at some point you've got to live for yourself....not for someone else. You're young and got a warm heart. Talk to him....tell him you can make your own choices.



    Wishing the best 4 you

    Feb 9
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  • Misssreal
    Misssreal

    This is from personal experience, I dated a guy many years ago everything was perfect than one day he became controlling everything was aimed at me - all my fault. He than started to abuse me, stuck around for to long. Once I finally got out of it I found out TWO years later he had cheated with 6 other girls, talk about self esteem drop.. Are you sure he's not controlling you because he's living with a guilty consciousness?

    Feb 7
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  • Malrocki
    Malrocki

    one good step might be to not be so dependant of him? I was very dependant of my last girlfriend and she was very controlling, but i started being more dependant and it helped out so much.

    Feb 6
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