Feeling Less And Less Wanted

How can a person that you love so very much constantly hurt your feelings? I know you are thinking "why are you still with him?" I love this man more than I have ever loved anyone in my life. I believe that I have much stronger feeling for him that he has for me. This has not always been the case. It just seems that lately he doesnt have any concern or moment of thought to my feelings. When trying to talk to him I get the sarcastic "yes Honey". I have even went so low as to ask for a sweet or sexy little text....HINT HINT. Well didnt work. This man takes good care of me but doesnt seem to case about my emotional well being. If he knows that he has hurt my feelings, never once has he said he was sorry that my feeling were hurt. I guess I could go on and on with stories. Tonight he has hurt my feelings again and I have been as quiet as I can so as to not argue. How is that a way to be.....just to not talk. He seems to be the happiest at that time. He told me a time ago that he is not happy with himself??
There is much more to this story but just needed to get this out so I can take a deep breath and go about my evening.
montygue63 montygue63
4 Responses Sep 9, 2011

i am going through the exact same thing, except i am the one that isn't happy

i feel the same , its weird.. its like i think its just emotions but it affects my entire being.. i hope you're doing ok. maybe there is someone can love us the way we truly deserve..

i feel your pain. Although I am the one being blamed for hurting him. Which stems from me being hurt by what he did. Nothing serious, just stupid stuff like posting comments about other girl pics n stuff like that. I am jealous and any time it shows (something he said or did hurt me), it's now all about him and how I hurt him by not trusting and thinking it was anything but a joke.<br />
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I am fun and crazy and all that, but when it comes to relationships, i hold them sacred.<br />
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I have no desire in pics of other men, flirting with other men, and when he does, I feel disrespected.<br />
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Just sad that he does not act the same (my definition of sacred, anyway)

I have been there with my spouse it was a hard road and he has been with so many other women I lost count. I have cryed so many tears, I prayed that God would fix our marrige and I know he does not love me the way I love him but I stay in this loveless marrige because I thought loving him was enough for both of us but it was not. Now God has giving me peace and love to walk away and he has bless me with a man that love me so much. I hope you would find the answer you need to move on with him or without him but God don't want us unhappy.