I'm Married To A Person With Borderline Disorder.
Hi guys, I want to share my experience with you and maybe have some advice. I'm a brazilian gay girl who lives in england with my partner. We are together for almost two years and even though I love her to sweetness, it's being really hard. She has borderline disorder and depression and sometimes its just unbearable. I have read a lot about it and I try to deal with it the best way possible but sometimes she goes through a state of total hyperness to deep depression and it makes her go nuts and say horrible things to me. She does apologise afterwards and I try to cope the best way possible and honestly I think I do a pretty good job but I wonder if someone else lives in a similar situation and can help me deal better with it. The problem is even disturbing our sexual life as she's always way too hyper what makes her extremely tired or way too depressed to think about sex. It's really hard but I love her too much and I definitely don't want to give up on her as well because I know she needs someone who doesn't give up on her like so many ppl did in the past. Thank you for taking time to read this! Cheers! X