Well stupid me decided to see how my son Ricky was doing. So I went on fb and un blocked my aunt who has custody of him long story don't judge. Saw pictures of my Ricky and my aunt calling him her son. Tears my heart apart. Just so ******* depressed right know. Feeling like I have been betrayed. I feel so heart broken. I am so hurt.
BrattyAngel BrattyAngel
36-40, F
3 Responses Aug 17, 2014

Good.

Shay
I never commented on this because words cant fix a heart broken like this ,,and as one who lost my children for so long ,I do know how it feels ,the lies they are told ,not knowing how their Christmas's and Birthdays went,, it is heart breaking ,,and anyone who has never been there really has no clue and should just keep their opinions to themselves ,,
I know there is a good reason Ricky is where he is ,,you are not selfish ,,,you saw his needs were more important then to drag him down as you had no clue how to hold on yourself ,,,
it is easy when you have never struggled let alone have another life counting on you to try and carry on not knowing how you are going to make it alone ,,let alone try and give a child what it needs and you don't have it to give ,,
many single Moms would say I was a single parent but "I did it " but they didn't have a disability to hold them back making it hard to take care of your child ,not even a worry about yourself ,how will I feed him ?
or know the debilitating depression as a love you made a life with is not there any longer and you are fighting to face each day alone ,disabled and now worried how can I provide for this life I have brought into the world ,,,
you my dear sister did the unselfish thing and have nothing to be ashamed of or to regret ,,,you put Ricky's needs first
I have felt the pain of being in a service and Dads get called up and honored for being Dads and someone see me still sitting and say are you not a Dad too ? get up there ,,trying to pretend I am not one because I have no clue where my kids are ,what they look like ,,,if they look like me or their Mom ,,,
unless you have been in these shoes ,,,you really don't know ,,,so if you feel the need to comment make it kind or keep it to yourself ,,,you are trying as so many do now days ,,talking about a subject you are lucky you don't know
a single thing about ,,,so should keep your opinions to yourself
Shay you are called ,,and as I have told you ,our father makes a way when humans say there is none ,,,
it took 12 years but He gave mine back ,,,and the pages of your future haven't been written yet either ,,,,look to and trust only in Him ,and all you need will come to you ,,,even Ricky ,watch and see ,,,,with all love and respect ,,,your brother always Ricky

About keeping opinions to themselves if u were referring to me when u put up an experience here it's for ppl to comment. If I don't want others opinions keep ur problems to urself

Hey sorry. Don't feel betrayed. If I was raising someone or even an animal I refer to him as my son. It's just that if she is raising him she sort of has the right to call him her son. There must have been a good reason u had to give him up and u blocked ur aunt just focus on that

U don't know the facts.

Then tell the truthfull facts!

I did at the time I wrote it it was all true

Then that person does know the facts.

which one?

Sharniab does know the fact only if you told the truthful facts. Duh.

Don't be mean

I was not.you said she did not know the facts then uou said you told the facts when you started this post thing. So make up your mind... did you tell the facys or does she mot knowthe facts????

Saying duh isn't very nice

Well, you said she did not know the facts then uou said you told the facts when you started this post thing. So make up your mind... did you tell the facys or does she mot knowthe facts????

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