Questioning Fidelity

I posted a question about having an affair. Would you mind answering it?

1) Best reason to
2) Best reason not to

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Thanks!

~ Ima
imathinkin imathinkin
51-55, F
1 Response Aug 11, 2010

Best reason to: a new sexual partner could make you feel the kind of tingly lust one usually feels with someone new and this sexual excitement could spill over into more excitement for your mate as well.<br />
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Best reason not to: You can't hurt your spouse. What if a physical affair turns into emotional commitment and you end up ruining your marriage?<br />
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I think the "not to" reasons far outweigh the the reasons to. Unless you don't love your spouse or care about ruining your marriage.