My True Story of An Affair.
I have been married for 11 years now but have been with husband for 19 years. We were high school sweetheart. We have had problems off and on throughout but we always made it through. A little over a year ago I decided I was not going to be faithful anymore. I had enough of him not being faithful. I did not take the choice to be with another man lightly. I started disconnecting myself emotionally from my husband and did not act on physically cheating until 2 months later. I met a great man in the same situation as far as someone not being happy in their marriage. We fell for each other pretty fast and before you knew we were meeting in hotel rooms and enjoying each other. Our relationship has grown tremendously. We are still friends today. Its not all about sex. We are each other escape from our worlds. We sometimes just meet up to talk. I know that he is never leaving his wife. That's what we talked about in the beginning of our friendship. We both knew what 2 expect and that way we could just enjoy one another. I am a changed woman because of it. I now know how strong I am and I have more confidence. My husband was very comfortable in thinking that no one would want me. So he never suspected I was having an affair. My husband and I had separated last year for about 7 months and now he is back. We are taking things one day at a time. I don't know or maybe I don't care if it is right or wrong but I gave that man 100% of myself all those years and now I feel like I must keep something for myself. That part me will not give up my friendship with my married man. I will not stop being intimate with him.