I Am Horrified Of Friends Knowing I Get Spankings

2 Friends Know

By: deleted

Written on February 9th, 2013

I don't have any siblings, but I have two bff's that know I have gotten spanked. I have been spanked with and in front of both of them. There are adults that know such as our pastor, youth pastor, their wives. Our church is very conservative, I'm sure there are any number of kids there who are spanked, but i'm not aware of it on a first hand basis, and i've never talked with them about it.

Aside from that, if any of the kids around town knew, I'd move to a different country. People who don't understand the dynamic don't and won't see anyone else's views as being beneficial, even if they are.

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Age: 26-30

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20 responses

moiamigo

what happens when you get spankings? I take it you're clothed these days?

Mar 10
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badbecky

I was spanked often in front of others l ike sibblings family members a b/f once my g/fs mom's lady freinds neverrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrr bare but always to tears if we were bad while people were around we were punished in front of them right away. It did help keep me in line and watch my mouth or actionss o i totlayy understand beth but how old were you and your b/fs whenthey saw you spanked why were you spanked and by who and with?

Mar 7
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flipflopboy

Have you ever been spanked with your own sandals at church before?

Mar 1
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- flipflopboy
  is their a crying room at your church?
  
  Mar 1
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- flipflopboy
  Both actually
  
  Mar 2
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Ineedarealwoman

I still get it also from my step dad who is a pastor

Feb 23
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carolyn1977

I know well what you mean about feeling horrible when someone outside of the family knows how you are disciplined. One of my closest friends growing up knew I was spanked, but luckily she kept her mouth shut since I also knew she was spanked.

Feb 23
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luckynancy

Best to simply keep it with yourself. There are so many people without any understanding for others `opinions and decisions. Simply no respect. I talk about my spanking obsession here in EP. Here are idiots also, but I ve got a lot of friends here to whom I can talk absolute frankly, not holding back even intimate information. Takes some time before you know whom to trust.. But then one gets a feed back you never get in " real life ".

Feb 17
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- nickir
  You are so right. People like that think that their narrow (it's always narrow) way is the only way or the only motivation for everyone else. We were more tolerant at 1 time.
  
  Mar 12
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BUSHMASTER116618

HAPPY VALENTINES DAY BEAUTIFUL , please add me as your friend !!!! XOXOXO DAVID

Feb 14
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BUSHMASTER116618

Hello please add me as your friend !!!! XOXOXO DAVID

Feb 14
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rimjobgiver

my uncle was a pastor in 1970s he spanked his daughters bare butt and their gfs too

Feb 13
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scabow

Wow, you sure brought up a lot of strong feelings. Sounds to me you are a reasonable and competent person, well able to sort things out for yourself. It does help to get various viewpoints, especially from friends and knowledgable (spelling, I know) people.

Feb 9
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valerie01

There is a christian man on EP ("barebottomspankings") that has sent me a message that he is available to give me counseling and bare bottom spanking therapy sessions over his knee. I am going to go and meet him after services next Sunday the 16th. I am hoping this is going to help me.

Feb 9
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- lilylilyrose
  be careful- what is his motivation? Tell someone before you go.
  
  Feb 9
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- michman01
  I agree.. I do the same things - as a counselor at Church and handling discipline. But meet in public, let someone know you are going, and follow your gut.
  
  Feb 9
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- valerie01
  Ok so should I back off?
  
  Feb 10
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- ivanhoe732
  You should most certainly back off you could find yourself in an extremely abusive situation, which instead of helping you, could end up making things a whole lot worse. If you really feel you need a spanking, find someone who loves and cares for you to do it.
  
  Feb 20
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michman01

Very normal and happens a great deal. I am a counselor at a Church. I also started the "experience" Experiences with Church Discipline" so that folks can discuss and write as well.

Feb 9
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valerie01

It sounds like you were raised in the same church atmosphere I was. Thank you for sharing this.

Feb 9
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