Who Decides What Kinky Is?

I'm really not sure just how kinky I am. Since I enjoy doing things the general public thinks is kinky. Who makes the definition of kinky anyhow.

Is it the general public, or some professor, maybe a DR, or physiologist, just who decides what is kinky in the first place. The things I do by myself with no one else involved, is that kinky? I wonder, I truly enjoy having my bottom spanked by a women, would it be kinky to enjoy it by a man. Or is it kinky to enjoy spanking in the first place. I also enjoy putting things in my ***. Is it not kinky unless I enjoy someone else, pushing things in my ***.

I'm sure somebody has the answer to this.  If you know please write about it.

stingme stingme
51-55, M
2 Responses Feb 28, 2010

I agree! When is something kinky?<br />
Who decides what's kinky.<br />
Why bother? If you are alone, or with someone who consents to your wishes, nobody can say a thing!

I agree! When is something kinky?<br />
Who decides what's kinky.<br />
Why bother? If you are alone, or with someone who consents to your wishes, nobody can say a thing!