Unfocused, Daydreaming, Lazy, No Time For This

In the last year I separated from my husband. I used to be supermom and multitask easily but now that I'm in love I can't do anything. Being in love makes me not just unmotivated but borderline stupid. My brain just goes to thoughts of him, and nothing else. I need to do so many things in a day and I just can't get motivated to DO anything. I mean I do function, I go through the motions but I feel so apathetic and detached from my life. I don't know if it's just the relationship or if it's a midlife crisis or what! I don't want to work out, I don't want to work, I certainly don't want to clean house (though I do) I feel like I'm just waiting for life to begin..and every day it doesn't.

pinkflowers1 pinkflowers1
36-40, F
1 Response Feb 11, 2010

I know being in real love is amazing. powerful. makes you a little crazy. you lost your motivation or drive to do things somewhere As i have. Can we find them? weve had them before. seems like thats the kind of peeps we are to be on top of things. Im positive all we need will come back. because I can not see myself living this way for my life!