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Global neurological damage has taken a lot from me.

I used to be able to play a good game of chess against two opponents at the same time with my back to there boards. Now I can’t even play against a computer set at the easiest level of skill. That hurts. 

  I have trouble walking without some assistance. I use a cane, walker or wheelchair depending on how bad my legs are on any give day.  

I am photophobic.

I have migraines. I am never w/o some kind of headace.

My muscles jerk.

I have “restless legs”.

My large intestines died and had to be removed. 

  I am Impotent. The nerves to my penis are damaged. Darn. 

 The good news is my wife still loves me.! YEA!

She may even love me more.                                                                                                                                                                                                                   She is going through menopause.

I have found that snuggling and back rubs work fine with her. I think she prefers a full body massage and lots of cuddling. I am glade this seems to be working out…DD   

Dewduster Dewduster
66-70, M
10 Responses Mar 20, 2009

TheRealWoman, I deal with it and make the most of what ever happens as do you...DD

You are handsome, wise and loving DD. :) You are far from impotent.

I wish you could too. Being old is not for the weak.Lol...DD

Keep the faith. DD. I wish I could see a chess board.

please don't give up...get even! Chess is as much about time practiceing as talent. Today you can play chess with a computer or even another human via the computer. Practice, practice, practice and then BEAT HIM!!! <br />
OR you can live with being Impotent. LMAO...DD

And I just gave up on chess entirely because my husband kicked my *** each and every time. It wasn't even fun anymore! LOL

RobertHedrock - knife throwing-pointless…get it?<br />
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MissBebe- We have something in common, we both LOVE lesbians. <br />
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thisisiallihave, This is indeed all we have so we make the most of it.<br />
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StudentofUnifying<br />
Life, Chess clubs were always 98% guys. Darn. I think women could be good chess pla<x>yers if they wanted to devote the time. I missed women like you at the club!...DD<br />
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LadyJayne, it is odd that I have found so much “positive” energy by first plunging into darkness…DD<br />
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JojoWazoo BECAUSE we have always worked through our challenges that we are have the strength to deal with these problems. We are bounded tight<br />
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WOW-Thanks for all the commits!…DD

DD, It's great that you and your wife have such great love and respect that you can work through these issues in your marriage. The fact that you're both willing to compromise on things is a wonderful thing! If only everyone could be o selfless!

"It's a pointless game anyway." So is knife throwing but it is kind of fun....DD

That sucks. If it's any consolation I also get my *** kicked at chess.<br />
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It's a pointless game anyway.