I Want To Leave But He Won't Let Me

I know he's been accumilating blackmail so I can't leave. We have 2 toddlers and joint custody. I can't look up my options because I'm not allowed to erase the history. I need help.

faith4truth faith4truth
22-25, F
2 Responses Jul 25, 2010

OK.. if you are serious about leaving him and what to research your options, this is what you do.... <br />
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1. go to your local library or college campus -- they both have public computers that you can use without him knowing. <br />
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2. search for women's shelters that will accept children -- there are quite a few around. they will also help with divorces. <br />
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3. open your own bank account -- have the statements sent either to a close friend's house ( one that will not tell him ) or simply create a email acct and have them sent to you to that address. <br />
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4. contact your local child support agency -- no amount of blackmail will deny your right to support -- and they work for free. <br />
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5. re-establish contact with your family -- you are going to need a support network.

Well i would tell him to sit down and talk about it i know i am 13 but u need to talk to him and he got out you got to ring 999