Why Family Or Friends See His Control?After having a conversation with a good friend (you can read it at "You Were Never Good Enough: EP Link ), I realize--in a deeper way that this break-up was the best thing for me.
Not just because he was emotionally controlling. But because when things did get worse--because in controlling relationships they always do--none of his family or any of our friends would ever believe he was really this way. Manu has charm: he's funny, entertaining, and seems very loving and sincere, and also Christian. We're both Christian. But I'm more reserved and easily misunderstood.
From all this I've learned: To listen to God and your inner voice about men, and that if he can't take you JUST THE WAY YOU ARE--then SCREW HIM: He doesnt deserve you!