Difficult & Distant

I met my boyfriend last month, on a silly website for teens I go on when I'm extremely bored. I live in Florida and he lives in North Carolina. 3 days after we met, we got together "officially." I kind of regret that. I think it was too fast. I mean, I didn't even know his last name or birthday or anything about him at all. He didn't know much about me either.

And although it's been over a month, I feel as if we're still strangers. We don't talk everyday. I don't know if it bothers him, but I know it bothers me. I want to talk to him more, and to learn more about him. I don't mind being so far away from each other, but I do mind that neither of us really acts like a couple. I feel as if our relationship is based solely on looks. I think he's cute and he thinks I'm pretty. And even though so much bothers me about our relationship, like the fact we never talk about anything important, I can't bring myself to end it.
iloveedward iloveedward
22-25, F
5 Responses Jul 21, 2010

I do want to talk to him about it..but I don't know how to do so. I'm scared of what will happen :S

Hello there! I think u shuld talk to him cz honeslty u can't expect to have a great relationship if u dnt knw much abt the othe person<br />
Talking is a great way and fun way to knw each other n it may actually bring u closer to each other<br />
Gd Luck!

Ah. You should at least talk to him about it. It hurts but the situation is unfair to both of you.

No, I'm the one who lives in Florida .

Hmm. I just did that myself, in person though. Definitely, you should try to talk to him and express yourself more. Scary, but it's liberating and you'll find out how he feels. And if it's not meant to be, a little heart scratch now is way better than a break later.<br />
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Btw, he wouldn't happen to be from Jacksonville and go by the name of Chris, would he?