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I Am In a Long Distance Relationship

Being Ignored

By: PinkButterfly841
Written on July 30th, 2012
Age: 18-21 , Female
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  • RAWRimakitty

    Maybe im to late to give advice, but if i can give out advice, dont worry too much, youll be fine, realize that you 18-21. thats a busy time in life. Hes probably working hard im sure. ^^

    Aug 31, 2012
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    • PinkButterfly841

      Thanks for the advice! I really appreciate it! Things have gotten a lot better lately. :) Oh, and I'm not actually 18, I did tat because of the adult filtering content on some stuff that's not necessary to be there and everything. I'm 15, my boyfriend just turned 18, big difference, I know. ._.

      Sep 1, 2012
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    • RAWRimakitty

      lol Nah , ive dated a 30 year old mother before so as long as its not pedo its cool by me ^^. And yeah no problem, If you want any more advice , please message me! =) Id love to help anytime ^-^ btw I love your profile ic! Im a huuuuuge pokemon nerd =B

      Sep 1, 2012
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    • PinkButterfly841

      Really? Yeah, I'm not a huge fan of pedos either..Thanks! :D Really? Haha! Me too!

      Sep 2, 2012
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    • RAWRimakitty

      I can tell this is going to be a very good friendship! x3

      Sep 2, 2012
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  • daredevilgirl

    your not over reacting message him and tell him that if he doesn't start paying attention to you then your gonna dump him cause he's being a jack ***

    Aug 18, 2012
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    • PinkButterfly841

      No worries. Since I have written this things between us have gotten better, it was a misunderstanding on my part. Thanks so much anyway. :)

      Aug 18, 2012
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    • Shadowwalker256

      im very glad for you

      Aug 18, 2012
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    • PinkButterfly841

      Thanks!

      Aug 18, 2012
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    • daredevilgirl

      cool

      Aug 18, 2012
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  • natedrake

    i had a six and a half year relationship with a girl and she did the same stuff id text her and she'd ignore me id message her on facebook and she'd ignore me. our relationship started out when i lived in georgia but then i had to move to alabama because of family issues that was back in 2009 she cheated on me after summeer 2010 after i got to see her and it nearly broke me but i gave her another chance we went through ok for a bit and she told me she was starting to like my best friend back in georgia nothing happened thankfully... but then on this past july third she broke up with me. she dragged my heart through the mud.... the best advice i could give you is just be prepared for anything try not to wear your heart on your sleeve and never let your guard down. i know im a little late in posting, so please forgive me if things have resolved themselves

    Aug 16, 2012
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    • PinkButterfly841

      I'm so sorry that happened. :( Thanks for the advice. Things have mostly resolved, guess he never realized I'd miss him as much as I did because once I posted something about feeling upset, he immediately said something. Maybe I was just over stressing the whole thing. I just do that though 'cause of how much I care for him.

      Aug 17, 2012
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    • natedrake

      yeah i understand that. and i thank you for the sympathy. also im really glad things have mostly resolved for you and i wish you a long ha[[y relationship :)

      Aug 17, 2012
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    • PinkButterfly841

      No problem at all. I'd love to help if ever have anything that's on your mind. Thanks. :)

      Aug 17, 2012
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  • teardrinker

    we went 2 montsh awithout talking was my fault. he wrote me paragraphs.i was going through depression and didnt share alot with him,and he was upset,but i dont wanna be debbie downer whe we chat,but he made me promise even to share my bad days as well as good. weve only seen each other in the flesh once in 2003 then just this yr from may to july...i am hopelessly in love with him.i wont dare brag but ldr's do work well sometimes just have to remember nothing is perfect.

    Jul 30, 2012
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    • PinkButterfly841

      I'm happy for you both. Seems your love for each other is very strong, I hope things go well. :)

      Jul 30, 2012
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  • teardrinker

    gawd i hate waiting for my cell to DING that "special facebook ding"..i have to go about my day and function,as does he and we cant talk all the time.i wish we could talk 3-4 hrs a day every other day something..hes a busy person he likes to go and do,this is one of the millions of thing i love about him.

    Jul 30, 2012
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    • PinkButterfly841

      Ah, yeah, I'm the same. Always waiting for some sort of notice from him. What I'd really love is for him to just be here, but that's not possible right now, sadly.

      Jul 30, 2012
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  • inthenameoffun

    As Teardrinker mentioned in her reply, ( if they are in love with you they will make time for you) is pretty much the way I look at it. I am not a fan of being ignored when it comes to chatting. The thing that I have learned in the social networking world, is that it is universal when it comes to being ignored. Many reasons are used when one is confronted, but think about this.If one is confronted and they REPLY, then chances are they are telling you the truth as to what happend when they did not get back to you, but that is if they reply in the same day or at least the next day. But if you see them replying and chatting with others on another social network (facebook) and they do not get back to you, for a while or at all, then chances are they have been playing you from the start. Maybe reply to something that he writes to another person on facebook. See if he replies to you then, but if he does, don't reply back right away and see if he continues to try to contact you, then you will see if he really is who is says he is. Hope that helps.

    Jul 30, 2012
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    • PinkButterfly841

      Thanks for your help. Right now I feel like I just need to settle down before I do anything though.

      Jul 30, 2012
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  • teardrinker

    i have had a steady love/freindship relationship with a man in the uk. we met randomly in a chat room. weve longed for one another ever since talked years 10 years he just went home a week ago,now i learned in those 10 years( hes younger than me btw) is that as long as we speak daily every other day unless we cant and we kinda tell each other "hey im going to be so and so,might not chat to you tomorrow"etc.

    if they are in love with you they will make time for you. and vise versa but we have to realize as bad as it hurts,we lead seprate lives.but we are bonded by love and trust.

    Jul 30, 2012
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    • PinkButterfly841

      Thank you for your help. I'm just gonna think about the situation a little more.

      Jul 30, 2012
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