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ive been in a long distance relationship for a few months now... i love her to bits... we constantly skype and call each other a few times in a day... yet i still feel very lonely... and long for another woman's embrace... i feel guilty sometimes... but i cant turn away from lusting after other women... not sure the problem has to do with distance... but its not really helping...
Trublood Trublood
26-30, M
4 Responses Dec 3, 2012

You should express those feelings to her n let her know that, i dont think its really fair to her u know but I only want one guys love and affection n I feel that's how it should be if you don't feel that with her maybe your not meant to be u know but idk good luck though

Think about how you'd feel if she was thinking that way about other men n see how that makes you feel it might help

long distance requires a lot of patience........and trust............i am sure she trusts you..............she deserves not to be cheated on........remember the good times you had......how it all started.........the feelings at stake...............and when you guys actually meet up all those doubts will vanish.............trust her and yourself!

I know the feeling being in a similar situation myself. At least you are getting some attention...I'd be happier with with just that.

I know how you feel. We've been apart 1.5 years and it's killing me, but he seems fine with it and doesn't struggle at all, so maybe he is already unfaithful and I wonder if I should be too because I'm sad and lonely and long for the physical too all the time.

Im sorry to hear that... im not really proud that i feel this way...i wish that it could be different but sometimes i just cant help it... if u can put up with the i dea of him being with someone else... and if u think u can live with the idea of having another relationship and still be in love with him... then maybe u should go for it... i dunno... maybe discuss it with him... have some sorta open relationship...