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I Am In a Long Distance Relationship

Like Torture But Cant Let Go

By: gatasucia
Written on January 27th, 2013
I have been in a LD relationship for just over a year. We have visited each other three times, two of which entailed me flying out to see him. The last time we were together was in September. He kept saying its his turn, and spoke about visiting during the christmas holidays. That didn't happen. Next he said maybecc around his birthday, at the end of January. Here we are today and he still has not come. Today we argued about this subject. He keeps promising to visit but then tells me he has no money. It seems all we do is argue these days. I want to end it and move on but I cant seem to let go. Should I fight to stay in this relationship or just say good bye?
By: gatasucia
Age: 41-45
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  • JacobGabel
    JacobGabel

    I was tortured for almost 3 years by the FBI and their friends only
    because 85 years old man, Roland, H Sibens(chicago)now he is 88, convinced them that I
    am a terrorist. I was tortured for working on my prosthetic legs in
    the basement. I done absolutely nothing illegal or wrong. They thought
    that in theory it is possible to hide bomb in them. They saw an
    opportunity to get famous, so they were trying to torture me till I
    sign their insane story. They tortured me using more than 100
    different torturing methods and trust to me waterboarding is not how
    they torture nowadays. I dont know where to find justice.

    I think that after 9/11 things got out of control. Freedom fighters
    became tyrants. In 1945, most Germans had an opportunity to learn about Nazis death
    camps. I hope that one day American citizens will get chance to learn about people
    like me, who were tortured with no reason for years.

    Jan 27
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  • megg1939
    megg1939

    try and undstand why he doesn't have the money.... try other types travel....flying isn't the only way unless he lives over seas or something like that. but theres the bus it sucks to ride but its cheap.... train.... try different airlines different website that have cheap tickets... i know its hard i've been there .... i didn't have the money so it was always my husband who paid.... i know its hard... if you feel he isn't trying hard enough then i would really think about moving on..... not every relationship works weather you live in the same city even same state or states away but it has to be an equal amount of give or take.... he isnt putting effort into the relationship they why should you i hope this helps...

    Jan 27
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