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Several, Actually

 But, let's not quibble over details.  I had a couple of relationships budding, actually contemplating marriage with two women, trying to decide, all by phone and email.  I mailed one lady a tape of me reading poetry and singing with musical background.  She was a gospel recording artist on the side.  I thought it would be great.  She had the same degrees that I did, played guitar as I had, loved to sing in her church as I do.  We had so much in common.  I bought a plane ticket to go see her and she wanted to wait, to lose 20 pounds first.  When she told me her weight, which was normal, I wondered how insecure can she be.  Then she admitted that she wasn't yet divorced from the loser she'd married who'd drained her bank account and then left her for a new girl friend.  The plot began to thicken.  Needless to say, I still regret not only losing out on the plane fare but not meeting her to see if in person she was as interesting as I'd thought. I may have poor judgement.

dorobo dorobo 70+, M 3 Responses Nov 14, 2008

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Well, as a matter of fact I was also talking to another woman, who I married. When I came up to see my now wife the other woman called my ex wife, who forwarded the call to the daughter of my now wife that I was staying with and when I talked to her there had been a tornado where she lived that dropped a tree on her car. She was hysterical and then I had to tell her that I wasn't coming to see her because I was getting married to someone else. She went off the deep end. She sent me nasty emails for awhile and then when she started dating another guy who moved close to her she and I talked about the merits of her marrying this guy who was in a wheelchair so he needed to live in town and she lived in the country. Never did learn how that all came out. So, she wasn't putting me off she was just vain, scared and still married.

Well, if you choose not to believe me, that's your choice. What I wrote was all true.

When the tailgate drops the BS stops.