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Intercontinental Love

A personal story in the experience: I Am In a Long Distance Relationship
I 've read lots of stories in this group and I know how difficult it is to be in love with someone who is far away.

I know it by myself because I'm also in such a relationship.

I met my boyfriend here on EP. It was the best thing which could happen. I had felt very lonely in this world and I had been in need of a soulmate who would understand me, who could console me when I cry and who would be able to make me smile.

One day I was reading some stories when I ran into a group where Aalekh had a story that he is a medical college dropout now studying engineering. That sparked my interest because medicine and engineering are pretty different branches. So I posted a comment.... and this was the beginning...   we started to talk and it increased to love.

We love each other so much that sometimes we can't believe how it is possible... The only thing which makes our love so hard is that hated distance... 4970km... Europe and Asia.... 

We have never met yet, and maybe we will not be able to meet for next 3 years, maybe more and maybe never.... Even that this thought always make me really sad, I try to think in positive way. We must enjoy moments we are together (online) , we see each other's faces, we can  hear voice of beloved person.

The most important thing is to build a relationship with a person you can completely trust. This is our case, too. We share everything, every feeling, every thought, every dream and idea, we help each other in difficult and tough situations. We tease each other a lot, we always try to make lover smile... 

Maybe someone might ask why we can't meet.... there are lots of reasons, beginning with distance, going through studies and money, ending with religion, nationality, family and traditions.

There is not any problem from my side, my parents like Aalekh a lot, always ask me how he is, what he is doing....  but on Aalekh's side it's not so easy. We are secret lovers...  there are few moments when I think about our relationship... and I pray and wish that  his family get to know me and that they will not have ANY problem with the matter I'm from "different world", different culture...  but.... 

The biggest wish I've ever had and which I will never give up is.. to be with my angel, with Aalekh.

 

I'm not going to write about... how terribly we miss a touch, a kiss.... and all this physical things because everyone who belongs to this experience group already knows it. 

And those who have never experienced long-distance relationship with a difficult background like our is, can't  understand it... maybe can imagine at least a bit of what we must go through if we want to live life together.

I wish the best luck to all couples who are missing their beloved due to distance.

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Posted Nov 15th, 2008 at 3:45PM
oh hunny,i know your pain,although,thankgod i dont have cultural or religeous barriers to contend with.immigration stopped our first attempt at meeting,and ruined my lovers chances at visiting me.
     
Feeling emotional
Posted Nov 15th, 2008 at 4:01PM
ah, yea.. this is my biggest fear... because it's almost impossible for him to go against his family and tradition.... :(
     
Feeling busy
Posted Nov 15th, 2008 at 7:25PM
nice story sweety........... but i am positive person and i feel that one day we will meet and becomes each others forever.
     
Feeling emotional
Posted Nov 15th, 2008 at 7:26PM
I wish it.... I need to be with you.
     
Feeling emotional
Posted Nov 30th, 2008 at 6:44AM, last updated Nov 30th, 2008 at 6:45AM
yes, there are many, but we will blow them out, hehehe.


and.. I'm really happy my parents like Aalekh and dont have any prob that I love him so much. Sometimes my mom says things which I even dont expect... like.. you two would be soo happy here.. or starts talking about my MARRIAGE???: haha.. it's sooo cute.. but after all she tells.. but at first you have to finish studies, lol ;)
     
Feeling emotional
Posted Nov 30th, 2008 at 6:51AM
hahahaha... you will have to hear it until you will bring him there, :P
and he will have to "survive" your moms questions.. oh yeah. i can imagine it.. *laughing*
     
Feeling emotional
Posted Nov 30th, 2008 at 7:00AM
ahahahahhaa.. thats cuuute, lmao.. ehehehe...
your mom is a little spy :P
     
Posted Nov 30th, 2008 at 7:06AM
I was in a long distance relationship for a while.
We're getting married next month. : )
     
Feeling emotional
Posted Nov 30th, 2008 at 7:08AM
I know BG, everyone knows it, and I m keeping my fingers crossed for you both!!!
Best luck, I wish we will end up like you two. :)
     
Feeling emotional
Posted Dec 27th, 2008 at 3:04AM
Maybe you forgot... but i'm soooo happy for Mello and BG!
     
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